12/25/2011

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What Is A Family ? According to psychologists working in the field of family relations, note the following fact, that most young people entering into marriage today, can hardly answer the seemingly simple questions: "What is family? As achieve family happiness? "Most of all, answering the first question, saying that the family is a husband and wife, parents and children and grandparents. And often, those who said such important factors as love and caring, joy and sorrow, and habits tradition. This difficult and thorny path, when two loving hearts are set on one task is the basis for the formation of home and family. Cope with this challenge the young couple may help traditional knowledge family rules and develop their individual - of family. It was they, these rules, and are the foundation of general marital happiness, allowing each person in the family to be stable and remain itself. Family rules diverse. They deal with all aspects of family life: from the most important (education of children and division of functions and "roles" between husband and wife) to domestic details, such, for example, where there should be soap dish in the bathroom - right or left. Many familiar ironic phrase "divorced from the fact that a squeezed tube of toothpaste from the bottom and the other from above." C. Unfortunately, this can become a stumbling block today. Experience shows that lack of family rules some families, ignoring them or say their deficit, when a young family of their time not worked, always lead to negative consequences - quarrels, conflicts and even divorce. Some family rules, set to come us from our ancestors, and remain "eternal" and up to date throughout their married life. This is - love, loyalty, mutual aid - that is the strongest foundation of any human good. Some family rules, for example,...
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Bad Neighbors In life many of us, sometimes there are situations in which one does not work to change everything (or not easy). This stage is sometimes wants to turn to us directly proportional to how we would like and often is that we are completely unprepared for this and do not know what to do next. You are now thinking: 'What did she want to tell us? " About our neighbors with you! Yes, it's about them. Our neighbors - this is our outlet at times (then when the neighbors friends). It happens that our neighbors are not subject to any interest at all (we do not see them, do not hear them and sometimes, very rarely find them on the landing). But there are some stages of life in a large number people such ryadomzhivuschie people who necessarily spoil our beautiful reality, make us throw out the most unpleasant reactions, and when these people become our enemies, our house as it is transformed into 'Battlefield'. It seems to me that many of us know such examples. May look more closely and understand: 'What kind of roommates around me? ". I propose a simple test. Ask yourself what will make my roommates, if by chance, unfortunately, the data comrades have flooded, or in the course of its current European-quality repair the wiring will break my favorite chandelier or wall? Presented? Or such events have occurred many times do you have? In my opinion the respectable inhabitants will in all conscience. Parenting just tell them how to change this, in addition to what has happened is at your own expense. But the most notorious neighbors, the ones that spoil the whole existence, no regard for your opinion of course, will go to the race and by all means retreating from their guilt....