John Gray

For these children need to come up with special rituals, emphasizing your love for them so they can feel their importance and to establish a special relationship with each parent. These rituals should not take much time, but requires that they be repeated and the child feels that they performed specifically for him. Enough to coincide with some common parenting concerns to a certain time, so that they become a ritual, and remembered for a lifetime. To make this or any other activity ritual, it should also several times in advance to remind your child about the upcoming event. Such rituals of love and joy left in memory of special memories and create a pleasant expectation that promotes the development of the child confidence in the future - from childhood and throughout life. Repetitive actions and rituals of the regime set the rhythm of life. Children with receptive temperament is usually not necessary to command. They are usually more compliant.

If such child resists, the more often it occurs because the father or the mother requires it to shift work, when he had time to prepare for it. If you encourage this child and give him the opportunity to properly to prepare, it becomes much more compliant. Instead of commanding receptive child, parents need to better understand his need for rhythm and repetition. These children react negatively to sudden changes, attempts to interrupt them in the midst of an occupation and the peremptory demands. When a child disobeys or rejects control by the elders, positive upbringing does not determine its behavior as bad or wrong, but simply states that the child is out of control - out from under parental control.

Rather than condemn, to punish or teach a child, you just need to somehow restrict or restrain him to prevent develop disobedience or rejection of parental control. Children need to feel the strength beyond the limits to reach an internal consensus and re-enter the co-operation. Happiness is an art - and the man possession of between seven to fourteen years. If prior to puberty, little man charge too much education and career, then later in life he will be much harder to enjoy. In adolescence, these children or neglected work, looking for just entertainment and they behave very irresponsibly, or work hard, but because of the excessive severity know neither happiness nor pleasure. Let your child develops at their own pace, and it is easy to adapt to the real world, when the time comes. Based on the book by John Gray's 'Children of Heaven'.