Take, for example, a woman, feminist, believe that women no worse than men and can perform traditionally male functions, including leadership roles within the family. She wants to play family leadership role to suppress the man to prove that it is better than men. How can enroll in this case, man? Oh, well, well, act! And I'm going to play chess, watch TV, even ready to shake a child - if only I did not touch and do not have to work hard at work. If we deprive a person of one role, he immediately compensates the other. Sometimes you need to look at the situation on the other hand, by some positive qualities. And if all time to say "bad, bad, bad man?, and be poor. There should be a mental hygiene of mutual evaluations. We're always waiting for us to be appreciated - look, word, gesture.
There is one golden rule: never RATE personality in general. Appreciates the concrete action. Several years ago, psychologists have sounded the alarm. A huge number of children on tests determined her mother as something working, strong, responsible, and my father as something abstract, asexual and zhaluyuscheesya to life. Growing up, the child is always trying to identify with the most successful parent, so the boys came to look for risk their own identity through a strong mother, through the image of women. " Is it really so? A child seeking behavior pattern in their own family and trying to identify with the most successful parent, it's true.
But a smart woman makes a man a sense of success. Let him something comes out, but that does not mean that it must constantly criticize him, humiliate, especially the child. And a smart man must build a positive image of the child with his wife and mother. I hope that the woman of the future remains the beautiful, kind, caring, and the man will be strong, caring, loving, and all will be well! Parenting Preschoolers
There is one golden rule: never RATE personality in general. Appreciates the concrete action. Several years ago, psychologists have sounded the alarm. A huge number of children on tests determined her mother as something working, strong, responsible, and my father as something abstract, asexual and zhaluyuscheesya to life. Growing up, the child is always trying to identify with the most successful parent, so the boys came to look for risk their own identity through a strong mother, through the image of women. " Is it really so? A child seeking behavior pattern in their own family and trying to identify with the most successful parent, it's true.
But a smart woman makes a man a sense of success. Let him something comes out, but that does not mean that it must constantly criticize him, humiliate, especially the child. And a smart man must build a positive image of the child with his wife and mother. I hope that the woman of the future remains the beautiful, kind, caring, and the man will be strong, caring, loving, and all will be well! Parenting Preschoolers
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