According to psychologists working in the field of family relations, note the following fact, that most young people entering into marriage today, can hardly answer the seemingly simple questions: "What is family? As achieve family happiness? "Most of all, answering the first question, saying that the family is a husband and wife, parents and children and grandparents. And often, those who said such important factors as love and caring, joy and sorrow, and habits tradition. This difficult and thorny path, when two loving hearts are set on one task is the basis for the formation of home and family. Cope with this challenge the young couple may help traditional knowledge family rules and develop their individual - of family. It was they, these rules, and are the foundation of general marital happiness, allowing each person in the family to be stable and remain itself. Family rules diverse. They deal with all aspects of family life: from the most important (education of children and division of functions and "roles" between husband and wife) to domestic details, such, for example, where there should be soap dish in the bathroom - right or left.
Many familiar ironic phrase "divorced from the fact that a squeezed tube of toothpaste from the bottom and the other from above." C. Unfortunately, this can become a stumbling block today. Experience shows that lack of family rules some families, ignoring them or say their deficit, when a young family of their time not worked, always lead to negative consequences - quarrels, conflicts and even divorce. Some family rules, set to come us from our ancestors, and remain "eternal" and up to date throughout their married life. This is - love, loyalty, mutual aid - that is the strongest foundation of any human good. Some family rules, for example, distribution of family responsibilities, specific parenting issues, etc., must be "mobile", that is, variable. Such rules should always be reviewed with each family the next stage of life, which can be divided into life when the rules "zakostenevayut" and become a brake on the development of the family, which inevitably leads to misunderstanding and conflict. The main task of the family at all times and all peoples is considered education of future generations.
Our government now strongly encourages the production of new residents. From 1 January 2007 entered into force on the federal law on the payment of the maternity capital home for the birth or adoption of their second child. A extension of their own lives in their children's lives - it is the goal to which, consciously or not, most people seek. It is only within the family man and a woman can expect full and complete reproduction of itself. Because only in the process of living together with their parents have the opportunity to fully convey to children their life experience, professional knowledge and skills. And children who were born in the family, it is easier to adapt to human community and become active and successful participants.
Many familiar ironic phrase "divorced from the fact that a squeezed tube of toothpaste from the bottom and the other from above." C. Unfortunately, this can become a stumbling block today. Experience shows that lack of family rules some families, ignoring them or say their deficit, when a young family of their time not worked, always lead to negative consequences - quarrels, conflicts and even divorce. Some family rules, set to come us from our ancestors, and remain "eternal" and up to date throughout their married life. This is - love, loyalty, mutual aid - that is the strongest foundation of any human good. Some family rules, for example, distribution of family responsibilities, specific parenting issues, etc., must be "mobile", that is, variable. Such rules should always be reviewed with each family the next stage of life, which can be divided into life when the rules "zakostenevayut" and become a brake on the development of the family, which inevitably leads to misunderstanding and conflict. The main task of the family at all times and all peoples is considered education of future generations.
Our government now strongly encourages the production of new residents. From 1 January 2007 entered into force on the federal law on the payment of the maternity capital home for the birth or adoption of their second child. A extension of their own lives in their children's lives - it is the goal to which, consciously or not, most people seek. It is only within the family man and a woman can expect full and complete reproduction of itself. Because only in the process of living together with their parents have the opportunity to fully convey to children their life experience, professional knowledge and skills. And children who were born in the family, it is easier to adapt to human community and become active and successful participants.
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