11/10/2013

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Selfesteem Discretion It is a commonplace that an important leg on which rests a successful life, is enjoying a strong self-esteem. Self-esteem is undoubtedly one of the concepts that we use at our whim, discretion, and very often confusing it with aspects related to the pride, vanity or pride. However, between that and these, there are reasonable differences, that have to do with other two somewhat less known concepts: self-concept and self-image. In a workshop of personal knowledge, last week, a woman of thirty-two years, commented that she had no self-esteem because of her four brothers, she was the only one who had a flat in property, nor he had founded a family. His big mistake was to conceive self-esteem as product of the self-image, i.e. of how she believes to be perceived by others, in short: a comparison with idealized models that are beating in his mind. If we let ourselves be carried away by their victimhood, can fall in, little favorable for her, temptation to console her, and attempting to comfort her, while a more successful intervention would lead us to change the order in which she set the tandem of cause and effect. In this sense, it is more accurate to think that one does not have what you want, because it does not enjoy a good self-esteem, to think that one does not have a good self-esteem, since it does not have what you want. It should not be for anything else that the Canadian psychotherapist, Dr. Nathaniel Branden defines it as confidence in our right to succeed and be happy. Self-esteem and humility, for many people are often values difficult to reconcile, since, in their heads, there is the ingrained belief that humility is to simply have a bad opinion of personal talents, the self-worth of the...
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A Cuban With Own Opinion I have been forced to participate in what is happening in my country even though I am one immigrant, I also want to hear my honest opinion. Once a friend told me that every Cuban who count with a minimum of political consciousness and love of his country is obliged to be a chronicler of the time that he lives. As a more lively Cuban with expectation and a little optimism the present times and treatment from my own experience to understand the past and present. Of course not let me ask questions, of which some have a Perogrullo response, at least from my point of view. For example, do have comrade Commander Fidel, promoted some of the changes, up to now made by his brother Raul? This question is worded this way, with every intension. First I declare total mentioned, titles and positions of Fidel ever mentioned him disagree. I understand that when he found an official act is done but not on other occasions, I smell the personality cult, or how you can say in good Cuban to widespread chicharoneria, as for example, when in each international sports or cultural event all obedient sheep dedicated his success the glorious Commander. We agree that is a personality and all that, but when repeated so much and for so many years lost direction and these words begin to sound hollow, as slogans so much I've had to repeat all my life in Cuba. I think I've deviated a little question, I'm looking like Fidel. My discretion Fidel would not have made them ever, by I think this, because in my opinion the fact of having been so long in single power has made grow arrogance and obstinacy characteristic of this character. We try to do a little serious analysis in...

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